Yeah, ok so i disappeared again. i really don't feel like talking aboutthis at all, but for some reason i feel like i have to explain myself.
A couple of months back, i thought i was pregnant. Well, i either just
missed a period because i am now fabulously peri-menopausal or i really
was pregnant. So, when i finally got my period....it was devastating.
Because it means: Either i miscarried or i am becoming no longer able
to sustain/create/carry a new life.
So, i've been a big black hole of despair for a while now. i am working
though this in my own way. There's really not a lot of guidance that
anyone can give me on how i should handle my feelings because no one
can tell me how to feel! i just need to grieve in my own way, for my
own reasons, until i am done grieving.
So, my intrepid readers: No, i do not want to talk about this. No pats
on the back, no knowing looks, and for Goddess' sake, please don't tell
me that i'll get over it. Or i'll scream.
1 comment:
i am so sorry. Who on earth (with a heart) would ever tell you to get over it??
i wish that i knew what to say...i wish that i had some good or kind words to help you feel better about this.
i can tell you this, though. i was told that i would never carry a baby full term. i lost..6, i think, including a still born son. i also had three babies. please, don't give up hope.
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